make that 14

ya terrible i know... figures i check the page and another gets added... and this one was our company... i feel terrible but the way i found out was even worse!

so there is a blackout obviously... a few guys somehow got on their fbs and posted i am ok just got some new bling and other stuff to that nature... so i knew there was atleast one... then the rear de called the frg leaders (idiots) into his office and told them we have a death, so they went to an frg function and told wives who then preceeded to call wives not there! me being a wife not there go tthis call...

so today i get a call from the frg leader who knew i was extremely annoyed... i told her it is inappriopate for you to be calling me with a list and i will be calling the CO... yes i realized someone died and my husband is okay but this is completely wrong! jmo

anyways i called the CO and put it out there that the protocal cant keep changing it should be the same every incident! and that soldiers posting shit i knew soemthing happened... so he was useless so i asked fo his bosses name and number

called the major! yup and he listen to me and was less of an ass (imo) when it came to what i felt like he shoudl do... honestly we have two frg leaders who dont belong there they need to go! and the protocol should be the same and everyone should know it! also news of a death or injury should not be given at a function when you know people will get phone calls who are not there! i also mentioned how i have new wives to the amy call me before the frg and that shouldnt happen i dont mind helping with what i can but it should be the frg not someone miles away! he agreed and said he was gonna have a meeting to go over these issues... hahah bye dumbass people (hopefully)

now lets hope the hubby doesnt kill me for swearing at the major and mentioning my miscariage, not sure why i did but i told him and he asked if i had a support system and i said a much better one then i would have had in hawaii! friends, family, and close army wives that i was with during my first deployment... i think i just added more stress in his day but not my problem i am getting a stress migrane from this unit, which i said over and over i hate this unit and cant wait to go sf!

ugh lets hope speaking up gets change! and my husband doesnt kill me