Seriously the most annoying thing someone can say to anyone! so this is something that keeps coming up with military families espically if a spouse decides to move home! honestly i moved home and it had nothing to do with not being able to be a big girl! i have done 2 deployments without going home but as a couple my husbnd and i felt moving home would be best! we wanted our daughter to get to know ou family and honestly living in hawaii it wasnt gonna happen... plus if i needed a break i didnt trust anyone anymore due to issues that came up... so yes i moved home and we are saving tons of money and i can get a job if i want and have help or get a break and leave my daughter with someone i trust!
i think people who use that statement of why someone shouldnt move home needs a kick! just because someone moves home doesnt mean i cant survive a deployment alone. yes i knew marrying my soldier he would deploy and i would be by myself! my daughter is not in school so this is the perfect time to be able to come home and let her get to met our famlies!
honestly i know it should not bug me but when other military wives say it it even pisses me off more! yes i am having problems at home but we (my parents and i) had a conversation with understanding before i came home but things during the summer changed and my daughters schedule keeps getting messed up so ya arguements start and i wonder did i make a mistake?!?! obviously moving back to my family and friends was right for me but maybe not my parents house i dont know almost time for a road trip and it cant come soon enough!
ok now that is off my chest time to wait for the hubby to call (since its been almost 4 days) and get this money to pee on the potty!
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