why!!

why would you try and mess with my husbands job when he was just doing his job?!?! saying my husband let me doing something that he didnt just cause he wanted to make sure you ok is such bullshit... i could have done what the rest of your friends did and just let him hurt you again and stand by and say nothing! then he would really fuck himself over and end up in jail!!!

so basically trying to help that wife and husband out who were having issues backfired... by my hubby talking to the soldier who may have hit his wife and then talking to the wife, she got mad and is saying she wants to get my husband in trouble saying he lets me read the councelling statements he has to write... which is beyond true! he never does i found some once, old ones from the first base we met at that he was just gonna throw away but i said maybe we should shred them since social security numbers were on them... ya i also came across a few from the guys here and read like a sentence but not the whole folder and obviously i am gonna know when he has to go deal with a soldier with issues (which the soldier who hit his wife did have with medications).... if he has to leave during dinner or just when we are having time together or with his daughter he does tell me "oh its so and so and i need to go do this"... and its not like when they call drunk or all drugged up i cant hear it or when the hubby is all upset he does give me some information but not a ton and i dont tell anyone... its not my place

i am just so over this and just see this deployment getting worse by the day :(