so friday the company had a "mandatory beach bbq"... but funny thing is not everyone was there, understandable cq duty people didnt but others just didn't show up and no biggie (such bullshit) but they didn't get the estimate calander dates and thats their problem...
it was pretty nice except for the lovely planes taking off right next to us... the guys all played volleyball, their was a bouncey house for kids, football, and plenty of water sports and of course food (burgers and hotdogs- with flies)!!
it would have been nicer if the little cliques weren't already forming... i am just not that type of person, i have always been wicked nice to everyone as long as they are nice to me... well there was this group of wives, i have hung out with a few times (hubby is friends with their hubbys), we are not really friends and they cut a girl out who i talk to every once in awhile (when she needs something-other blog has that whole situation explained)... so anyways theses wives kept looking at me like i was suppose to care that they deleted me from facebook, i don't care one bit and thankfully i will have less drama... i was there just to get info and let my daughter have fun time with her daddy not there to be fake and just be in the drama!! anyways i am over them and completely annoyed i honestly have no clue why they hate me!! the only thing i have said to the one they cut out is once one wifey's hubby is out she probably won't talk that much to the girls atleast from my experience, and another will be so a mommy to a new baby and a third is going to be working so she shouldn't worry about all the shit that has been going on it will change... and the girl i said it to is gonna have a newborn and a toddler so not sure why she doesn't worry about it...obviously it was changed to something else but whatever i am over this highschool bullshit which feels more like middle school!!
i have come to realize that military wives come in two forms 18 year olds or 40 year olds, not saying if you are 18 you act 18, cause there are some young wives who act older... all i am saying is some wives are still in high school and others are adults... and if i wasn't married to a soldier theres a good chance that half the people i have met i would not have ever really talked to or become friends with since there isn't much incommon there... its just my opinion if you don't like it then oh well but honestly think about it as a community we all go thru deployments, hardships, lonely nights, and things some people will never get but if you take the military life out of the equation some people that hang out have nothing in common at all, unless you count loving drama!!!
well the hubs is about to be gone for a week so single parent time... beach tomorrow so need to get some rest!!!
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