he's home

well from training on the big island... thank god cause with the guys gone the wife drama was crazy!!! i will just leave it at this, some wives don't truely understand opsec and that its not just deployment info its also training and being told that they asume you are using "authority" of your hubbys rank!! and there was threats (supposely) on a wife who is pregnant so she had to come stay with me (joy of unexpected or desired guests)...

well the hubby had a long week himself! a new guy missed pt cause he was trashed ( blew .18 when they got him to the mps)... they were told (the ones flying) to be there at 4am (so 3am for the hubs), sucked cause i had to wake up our daughter to drive him, blah! i guess they just sat around till 930 am with their thumbs up their ass... alot of the guys got wind burn extremely bad on their faces (looked like herpes) my hubby only got a little burnt (so now he is tons, heheh).... when he came home on saturday it was baby making time (trying for number 2!!!) our little peanut was so happy to see him! she crawled and stood up into his lap and snuggled on his leg!! so cute :)

he had monday off so lazy family day! we got a toy box cause i was going crazy with toys and books everywhere atleast now they are organized... tuesday he is suppose to have short days but of course it didnt happen so far but he is home for our family walk and dinner which is a plus... he is also getting ready for the boards E-6 here we come!! (i know i dont wear his rank but excited he is finally going to the boards which has been postponed since they got back from iraq almost a year ago!)

nice thing he has monday off and friday and then the following monday... shitty thing he has cq this weekend... but that is army life! atleast i know i can bring the peanut up and he will play with her so i can get homework done or just relax alone!!

well thats our exciting life during training... oh and i am gonna sew the peanuts halloween custome myself (well with help)!!! and the hubs birthday is the 12th so golf, cigars, drinking, and a steak dinner and maybe a positive pregnancy test!!

wish us luck :)

Company Beach BBQ

so friday the company had a "mandatory beach bbq"... but funny thing is not everyone was there, understandable cq duty people didnt but others just didn't show up and no biggie (such bullshit) but they didn't get the estimate calander dates and thats their problem...

it was pretty nice except for the lovely planes taking off right next to us... the guys all played volleyball, their was a bouncey house for kids, football, and plenty of water sports and of course food (burgers and hotdogs- with flies)!!

it would have been nicer if the little cliques weren't already forming... i am just not that type of person, i have always been wicked nice to everyone as long as they are nice to me... well there was this group of wives, i have hung out with a few times (hubby is friends with their hubbys), we are not really friends and they cut a girl out who i talk to every once in awhile (when she needs something-other blog has that whole situation explained)... so anyways theses wives kept looking at me like i was suppose to care that they deleted me from facebook, i don't care one bit and thankfully i will have less drama... i was there just to get info and let my daughter have fun time with her daddy not there to be fake and just be in the drama!! anyways i am over them and completely annoyed i honestly have no clue why they hate me!! the only thing i have said to the one they cut out is once one wifey's hubby is out she probably won't talk that much to the girls atleast from my experience, and another will be so a mommy to a new baby and a third is going to be working so she shouldn't worry about all the shit that has been going on it will change... and the girl i said it to is gonna have a newborn and a toddler so not sure why she doesn't worry about it...obviously it was changed to something else but whatever i am over this highschool bullshit which feels more like middle school!!

i have come to realize that military wives come in two forms 18 year olds or 40 year olds, not saying if you are 18 you act 18, cause there are some young wives who act older... all i am saying is some wives are still in high school and others are adults... and if i wasn't married to a soldier theres a good chance that half the people i have met i would not have ever really talked to or become friends with since there isn't much incommon there... its just my opinion if you don't like it then oh well but honestly think about it as a community we all go thru deployments, hardships, lonely nights, and things some people will never get but if you take the military life out of the equation some people that hang out have nothing in common at all, unless you count loving drama!!!

well the hubs is about to be gone for a week so single parent time... beach tomorrow so need to get some rest!!!

late night

so last nights training the hubs didn't get home till 3am! he was very tired and had to be back at work at 9am, thankfully the little peanut got to see him for a minute even if it was just a minute she was smiling!! you could tell he was exhausted but he seemed happy to let me know that he doesn't have to do the class on saturday!! he still has to help with a carwash but thats just the morning... the CO decided that if you are in the platoon of the guy that got in trouble and anyone who rides a motorcycle, which is fair i guess, i mean better then the hubby having to go sit thru classes then be at a carwash all day then come home to play with his daughter and do the things he has had needed to do since last week!!

tonight he is suppose to be home before 3am but who knows its not really looking like it... i guess after this week he goes away for a week then he is home hopefully at a reasonable time (fingers crossed... hoping)

so another night just sitting here waiting... thankfully one of the drama wives decided she didn't want to talk to me anymore and removed me from her fb (i just didnt care either way)... her hubby is getting out so she can enjoy her military wife friends now cause they probably will disappear very soon... (she was the one with the stupid hubby who drank till he puked blood)...

well lets hope this training doesn't get worse before he gets better and no one gets hurt trying with bullets (and some are not smart-drinking before work)

well anyways i am ready for deployment 3 to start so we can kick its ass and start our new life with special forces and back on the east coast!!

good night

the range

so the hubs has training in the field tuesday, wednesday, and thursday... it wouldn't be so bad if we actually saw each other besides when he came home, oh wait thats right we won't seem to see each other tonite well there goes trying to make baby number 2 (maybe sometime this week)...

and saturday he has class cause some soldier was stupid AGAIN!! seriously these are grown men who seem to not get it, don't drink and drive! they could honestly call any one of the sgts and they will pick them up so they don't have these stupid alcohol classes!! this time the soldier decided to drink then drive his motorcycle... seriously some people are so stupid!! he got a dui! another soldier drank so much he was puking blonde, ya so responsible with two kids (one just born)... atleast he called 911 instead of driving but then my hubby had to go check on him and then he was bragging on facebook (but thankfully he is getting out of the army soon)!

really wish these guys would grow up and the ones who are getting out would be the ones doing cq cause then the days he doesn't have cq or work he can be helpful and productive... he had cq sunday and monday was completely useless cause he was so tired, i understand he has to do it but damn 2 days without help one being a day we had things we needed to do and nothing got done!!

ya i just realized how much i vented on this but honestly if the military is suppose to be family first and they are suppose to have a year off after a deployment, why does it never feel that way? i mean there is schools, training and cq/staff duty, and just regular bullshit...

and so the training for deployment begins, next week he is leaving for a week so it should be fun dealing with a child who is now a daddys girl!!